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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 00:53

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I couldn’t, believe it.

I waited trembling.

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Ive learnt so much.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Why do guys look up TikTok girls instead of porn? My boyfriend of two years, looks up big boobs on TikTok. He has never once cheated on me, not on social media or IRL. He claims it’s to “get off real quick if I’m not home.”

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

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He was dying to do it , i knew.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Why do I feel sleepy after massage?

I was very sick at this time too.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

It was going to be , some day.

Why was Super Buu so afraid of having Fat Buu torn out and becoming Kid Buu if he was going to destroy the Earth even before his transformation?

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

As i do to all so called friends.?

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He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

But it wasn’t much.

Im still living with it.

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All the time i was locked up.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

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My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

My family never makes their pension either.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

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He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

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I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Why is it after eating almonds when I’m occupied, I don’t feel mild itch, but as soon as I have nothing to do, I feel mildly itchy?

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

I never cut or harmed myself..

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I said to her

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Especially a lifetime of it.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

I was 9 years of age.

Why did i forgive my father ?

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Was to survive, this bastard.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Would this be the day?

Who then, do I blame.?

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Comes on , in middle age.

She married twice! .

What did i know ?

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I think the readers, may guess!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

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I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

He resisted the act ,that day.

This is soul school!.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

But ive been too sick for many years..

I have no regrets .

On the 31st of Jan this month .

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We were not on the streets..

My mum and dad in the seventies!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

I don,t even have a pension.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

She wouldn,t have been !

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

I write beautiful poetry .

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Im dying but, im not bitter.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

So whats the point in blame.

When she asked me how she looked .

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

One cannot live in the past .

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

She loved him until the end.

And i lived it daily.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

She was in good health!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Put me off passion for life!!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

So, i spoilt her more .

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

He knew the spot.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I could never make a relationship work though!

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

We all went to grammer schools

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I was scared of men, in general

I will be 64.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

She found it foreign!.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I was seconnd youngest,

My life is so biszare .

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

But, we were locked up after school.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

(And it was in our own minds.)